am I polyamorous Archives - Rewriting The Rules

Figuring out your sexuality

Thanks to Paisley Gilmour for including me in this nice netdoctor overview about figuring out your sexuality: Am I gay, straight, lesbian, bisexual or LGBTQ+?...

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Is non-monogamy for you?

In the second of my two interviews with Lori-Beth Bisbey, we chat about how to know if non-monogamy, or polyamory, is for you, and some...

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New zine – queer relationships

I just spent the whole weekend and two excellent events on relationships: Queer polyday in Leicester, and the Polyamory, Consensual Non-Monogamy and Relationship Anarchy day in...

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Savage advice on monogamish relationships

Dan Savage did this presentation to the Festival of Dangerous Ideas on monogamy, non-monogamy and monogamish relationships. Lots of interesting ideas in there, and he...

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Monogamy isn’t ‘natural’

There’s a piece by me on the Guardian Comment is Free website in response to today’s news about research on evolutionary theories of monogamy. So...

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Feminism and (non)monogamy

I did a podcast interview last week for Feminist Current about whether monogamy was compatible with feminism. The podcast deals with some of the historical...

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